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Hold Close the Memories that Matter

Dec 18th, 2024 | Hire Wire

Every year, my team asks me to write a year-end note reflecting on the past year and looking ahead to the next. Today, however, I want to share a deeply personal story about a Christmas that shaped me forever. Don’t worry, though—I'll be back soon with my thoughts for 2025!

I’m a true Delco girl, raised by parents who worked tirelessly to give us the best life they could. My dad worked at GE as a blue-collar assembler for an incredible 42 years, and my mom was the heart and soul of our home. They poured so much love into making the holidays special for us, but Christmas 1988 was different. It was the last Christmas I spent with my mom.

In the fall of 1986, just as I started at Widener University, my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. My dad and I supported her through countless doctor visits, chemotherapy, and radiation treatments. Being close to home at Widener felt like a blessing because I could be there when she needed me most. But by Thanksgiving 1988, the doctors’ words were hard to ignore. Even at 20, I knew what they were trying to prepare us for.

If you know me, you know I love giving gifts from the heart. That year, I wanted to find something truly special for my mom—something that would carry meaning for both of us. After searching for the perfect gift, I found it: a beautiful glass ornament with a delicate deer and her baby nestled inside. It reminded me of our bond, and I hoped it would remind her of the love we shared. When she opened it, she looked surprised, but I knew it would be something I’d treasure forever. Every year, when I unwrap it and hang it on my tree, I’m transported back to that special Christmas with her. It always brings a smile to my face and reminds me of what really matters.

As we head into the holidays, I want to encourage you to pause and reflect on the moments and memories that bring you joy. Maybe it’s not an ornament—it could be a family vacation, your wedding day, the birth of a child, or even a quiet moment of triumph. Whatever it is, hold it close. Life moves so quickly, but those moments are what ground us and remind us of what’s truly important.

 

Warm Regards,

Marcia Zaruba O'Connor

This information is provided for informational purposes only and should not be taken as legal advice. The O’Connor Group makes no representations as to the completeness, suitability, or validity of any information contained herein and will not be liable for any errors or omissions.

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